Dineen Miller
Genre(s): Christian Life/Love & Marriage, Women’s fiction with supernatural elements
Titles:
Him Without Words: 10 Keys to Thriving in Your Spiritually Mismatched Marriage (Regal)
The Soul Saver (Barbour—Summer/Fall 2012)
A Love Meant to Be, a novella—Rendezvous in Central Park (Barbour—April 2012)
Twitter:
@sumarriage or @dineenmiller
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State: California, USA
You write nonfiction and fiction – which do you prefer and why? What are the difficulties of each and the pleasures as well?
That’s a really good question, Bonnie. I think I like them both equally. Nonfiction is a tad easier in the sense that you don’t have to worry about whether you’ve dropped a thread or changed the color of your character’s eyes half way through the book. The chapters tend to be somewhat independent of each other, yet still linked in theme. And I find I still use fiction techniques to write compelling nonfiction. I think finding a salable and unique idea is the hard part. You have to invest time to build a platform.
As for fiction, I love the depth and creativity of building characters and putting them in worlds fraught with issues that test their faith and push them to grow beyond who they started out to be. I think writing like that excites me the most. That’s when the characters become almost real and take residence in our hearts. The hard part, for me at least, is not losing the feel of my characters if I’m unable to write for a while. That’s something I’m working on changing at the moment. Now that I have more contracts, I’m letting go of my design business for a while. Less distractions. Yay!
What was The Call like for Him Without Words: 10 Keys to Thriving in Your Spiritually Mismatched Marriage?
Tearful. Literally. Lynn got the email from our editor, Kim Bangs at Regal, then forwarded it on to me and called. I started crying and couldn’t believe it. In fact, I was so choked up, I couldn’t talk on the phone when I called my husband with the news. He thought something horrible had happened. Poor guy… It was just so unexpected, to be honest. I’d set in 2004 to get published in fiction. Never imagined I’d wind up part of a growing ministry with a book. God has a way of taking our dreams and molding them into something better. He loves to wow us.
Favorite book ever read: The Bible. It just never gets old, you know? ;-)
Do your characters have a “fate”? Or do they get to choose where their story goes? A little of both, I think. I pretty much know what’s going to happen to them by the end. I did have an antagonist argue with me for a day though. Never had that happen before. But he was a character who started out good, and had good intentions, but one bad decision after another lead him to a dark path. He didn’t want to be evil and tried to convince me he was good. I finally had to tell him to shut up. Hasn’t happened again.
How do you do your research? As I’m writing. I’m a seat of the pants writer, so I don’t always know what research I will need. One book I wrote actually took major chunks of time to research because it dealt with genetic modification. That was fun though. Love the Internet. I love genetics! DNA anyone?
Is your “real life” comparable at all to the stories you write? The Soul Saver is probably the closest to my real life in that it’s about a spiritually mismatched couple. What was freaky on that story is that when I started it, I knew the husband was a physics professor at Stanford University and that they’d lost a child due to a brain tumor. A few months later, my youngest daughter was diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor and the radiation treatment she would need would be designed by physicists at Stanford. We traveled up there everyday for months. Needless to say, my research was hands on for that story in many ways.
Which character would you sit down and have a meal with? What would you have? What would they have? I would love to sit down with Abby. She’s an older woman who becomes a mentor to my heroine, Lexi, in The Soul Saver. She was spiritually mismatched her entire marriage. Unfortunately her husband died before he accepted Christ—as far as she knows. Abby hopes her husband encountered Christ at his death. She’s a wise woman and a great friend to Lexi. We’d have tea and scones for sure.
Do you have a spice or flavor that defines you? Cinnamon. Love it!
Would you react the same way your character did to the plot? Yes and no. Yes because earlier in my marriage, Lexi’s struggles are similar to mine. No because I’ve learned a lot along the way and God’s been immensely gracious to me in giving me wisdom to navigate my spiritually mismatched marriage.
What is the weirdest place you’ve been at or thing you were doing where you came up with a book idea? On the back of a horse. I was horseback riding with my daughter. We passed a creek on the trail that was partially shrouded in trees. I looked down and said, “You could hide a body there.” My daughter was not amused. LOL! I'll double that! LOL
How do you come up with ideas (don’t you hate this question?)? Something I’ve seen or read sparks them. Sometimes the plot comes first, sometimes the characters. I’ve had ideas and even dialogue come from dreams. It’s never dull being a writer.
You’re sitting there and you’ve hit a writer’s wall… what food inspires you? Red Hot Tamales. Or chocolate. I eat the sugar free kind now.
Name the show/music that plays in the background while you write… That varies from book to book. Just depends on my mood. Love Third Day, Red, Kutless, Daughtry, and many others. Sometimes I’ll listen to Justin Durbin. He writes music for games. Very emotive. My crit partner Ronie Kendig turned me on to his music. I generally try to match the music to the scene I’m writing.
Describe your office in three words or less… New, bright, cozy.
One word that defines you. Driven.
Favorite color and why? Peridot. Absolutely love that shade of green. That or yellow topaz. That’s my birthstone.
How did you become a writer? I was in fourth grade. A friend was writing these cute stories and I thought, “I want to do that too.” Guess that was the beginning.
Who is your biggest supporter? I can’t list just one because I’m blessed to have so many. My mother, husband, daughters, awesome crit partners and best friends, Robin Caroll, Lynn Donovan, Ronie Kendig, Camy Tang and Heather Tipton. My two best buds from church, Trish Ontiveros and Debbie Opray. I’m sure I left someone out…
Is there anything off-the-wall you think no one should know? Come on, now you have to tell! My dog has really stinky paws. Yep, that’s about as adventurous as it gets in this girl’s life.
List three things you want to do or accomplish in the next three years. Get a contract for a three book series based upon the Treasures of the Ark, see my two daughters step into their futures with confidence so I can have my husband all to myself again, and have more opportunities to speak to women about God’s wild hope for our marriages and our lives.
Ask yourself one question that you wish people would ask but no one ever does?
What’s your favorite time of day? Twilight. It holds the memory of the day and the promise of the night to come. Definitely a time of in between. I’m an artist at heart and the lighting this time of day has always intrigued me.
That is a great question and even better answer!Game of Would You Rather…
… be rich and famous and sell mediocre books or be average paid and a respected name that reviewers acclaim? Average and respected. I’d like to think that would mean my writing would make a difference in people’s lives.
… shake up a can of pop and open it in a group of people or go for a Polar Bear plunge? Polar Bear plunge. I don’t like doing mean things to people. LOL!
… eat 10 pounds of raw carrots or half a pound of raw fish? Bring on the sushi!
… hug a stranger or slap a friend? Hug a stranger. They just might be having a bad day.
… pray in public or not at all? Pray in public! Pray anywhere!
… choose your own ideas for books or have someone assign them for you? Choose my own, but I’m always open to input. Brainstorming brings out the best possible ideas. Can’t do that alone.
Him Without Words: 10 Keys to Thriving in Your Spiritually Mismatched Marriage.
Week after week, they sit in church . . . alone. They are the spiritually mismatched, those who are committed to a spouse who does not share their faith. Feeling abandoned by their spouse and forgotten by their church, they live out their faith in survival mode, guarding the spiritual flame yet never feeling free to share it. But God wants them to thrive—not just survive.
Winning Him Without Words presents 10 Christ centered keys to thriving in a spiritual mismatch. Readers are encouraged to commit to Christian community, to release their spouse to God’s capable hands, to find peace in their relationships with Christ and with their spouse, to continue their pursuit of a growing faith and to love their spouse with fresh enthusiasm. God wants every marriage to exude peace and love, and Winning Him Without Words empowers readers to create that environment in their homes and thrive as God works.
I had so much fun interviewing this lady and of course reviewing Winning Him Without Words. I do so hope you'll swing on over and visit Dineen in one of her many avenues of contact. One of the MANY things I adore about this author is her availability. If you have a question, she has made it extremely easy to ask. Don't you love that?
Not to mention, she's adorable and fun.
Thank you so much Dineen!